You might be thinking that the question posed by this blog post’s title is obvious. You might think that you have a clear answer. You might want to think again. The reality is that techniques, ability, stamina, physical appearance, while being important are actually quite secondary. In many cases, when it comes to anonymous sex, they’re not even key considerations at all. What is the top factor that you should look for if you’re looking for a sex partner online or offline? Very simple. You’re looking for discretion.

You have to remember that if you’re into anonymous sexual dating, whether in a relationship or not, discretion is crucial. Your private life can haunt you in the worst way possible. There’s been many cases of people, who end up running for office or being promoted to a very prominent public job, only to lose those positions because they got outed as some sort of sexual sleazeball. It really helps to have a sex partner who knows how to keep her mouth shut.

So if you’re still clueless regarding what makes a great sex partner, stop focusing on the other things you normally focus on and focus on what truly counts.

Focus on attitude.

Attitude, you see, is everything. As the old saying goes, your attitude determines your altitude. While its easy to see how this saying applies to the amount of money you make or the amount of times you get promoted at work, it’s worth understanding that this applies to your anonymous sexual efforts as well. If you want the very best experience, you need to have an attitude that preserves the high level of adventure and even dirtiness anonymous sex can have. This can make it a truly memorable experience for you and your partner. The more memorable your experience, the higher the likelihood your fuck buddy would want you do to it to her again… and again and again.